one of the most challenging proposition of life, is the opportunity it presents you with crucial decision making. at times...you could so do away with the idea of a " challenge" and "opportunity", but then that's Murphy's law for you.
They all say, how times such as these , bring out character and credibility and mindset...but that's for the observers, audience and spectators in the arena of life. Its a different game when you are the gladiator. one does what one does feel best at that moment, and the rest is all hindsight.
I think, its tough to be in that decision making situation, you are never really prepared...pulled and bullied by all sides with thoughts equally right in their way. I often feel that no matter how prepared you go...one is practically ----always unprepared.
I'm still in my maze, as you can imagine.